How does one succeed in life?
14.06.2025 06:17
Quitting porn for 30 days is a goal.
Having a process that automatically transfers money to your savings account each month is a system.
Avoids sugar and is very fit.
When sharing a wife, is it best with your buddy or a stranger?
Do not set goals—set systems.
How can I make the good habit (you want to start) inevitable?
Paying a coach with a detailed plan is a system.
Why should the law care about what I do behind closed doors?
Buying, a book like Live Intentionally or any other practical self-improvement guide is a system.
Similarly, "YOU 2.0" trusts you to make decisions for him.
PICK 1 important thing you want to quit or bring into your life in 2025. Think hard about a system that will make it impossible or inevitable.
Why is going on a date today so much different than it was when I was young?
Scrolls too much TikTok/YouTube Shorts.
Hates going to the gym, eating healthy, or even doing laundry.
Big dreamer but only in his mind.
Why am I not attracted to masculine men? Why do I like more feminine attributes on a man?
Final example: Maybe you want to be a better version of yourself in 2025.
Example 2: Maybe you want to lose weight.
Opens a business and makes WiFi money.
What are some things that normal people do that religious people call sins?
Ask yourself:
The money you’ve invested, the tailored plan, and the accountability of the coach make it almost impossible not to succeed.
Procrastinates a lot.
Why does my girlfriend keep asking me if I love her?
Making more friends is a goal.
Example 1: Let’s say you make a monthly income, and you want to save $10,000.
Most people think their 2.0 version will magically manifest and find it easier to do hard things.
Saving $10,000 is a goal.
Porn blockers might help, but they won’t be as effective. And you know nudity isn’t just on Pornhub—it’s everywhere. Don’t joke with fire.
Self-disciplined (controls his d*ck, no Netflix, no smoking, etc.).
What pleasure do guys get by sucking female breasts?
Keep in mind that, there is always a system for any problem. You just need to be willing to think hard enough and BE WILLING TO MAKE SACRIFICES.
What I need from you?
First, understand that, effective "change" should be 80% systems and only 20% willpower—not the other way around. Do not joke with that.
What would happen if the Earth stopped spinning for one minute?
Attending 1 specific event every week is a system. Friends will naturally come to you.
Losers and winners have the same goals. The difference is their systems.
Living to your full potential is a goal.
Who is the beast of Revelation 13?
That's it for today.
Has a beautiful wife, cars, etc.
An average man, let's call him Sam’i (that’s my name):
Hangs out with loser friends.
I never raise problems without solutions. So, what to do?
Example 3: Maybe you want to make more friends.
How do I deal with autistic burnout/meltdown/shutdown when cooking?
Cutting off WiFi at home for a month or giving your phone to a distant friend for a month (in exchange for a Nokia or simply nothing) is a system.
Can’t control his impulses (women, porn, masturbation, smoking, Netflix, anger, etc.).
If you don’t change now, expect tomorrow to be almost exactly the same—or worse.
How can I make it impossible to fall into a specific bad habit (you want to quit)?
The truth is: Future YOU is simply YOU, but older and more tired.
In 5 years, YOU will still be the one making decisions. And if you keep your current habits, "YOU 2.0" will have big problems.
“YOU 2.0” is like your future kid. It’s your duty to make decisions for him. It is wiser to marry a nice mom for your kid, not just a beautiful wife for yourself.
Example 4: Maybe you want to quit porn for 30 days.
Does not procrastinate.
Losing 20kg is a goal.
Like Sam’i, 99% of men treat their future selves like strangers—completely different from who they are right now.
However, he firmly believes that one day, he will (like by a miracle) be that new, dope version of himself, Sam’i 2.0: